Case File 021 - Life Lesson After Death
Photo credit: Sharon McCutcheon @sharonmccutcheon
“Death is not the end of your life lessons, what needs to be learned means it needs to be learned.”
Gerald has a long time friend, Mickey who was recently widowed. Before Mickey was widowed, he and his wife did not have a good relationship before his wife passed away in an accident; they were at the verge of a divorce as he cheated on his wife. But his wife passed away in the accident before the divorce papers were signed.
And lately, Mickey felt his late wife’s presence in his home. He suspected that his late wife was back to haunt him. Therefore, he asked Gerald for help if there is any way to make peace with his wife’s spirit.
Since Gerald asked for my help, I agreed to take a look and see how I can help.
Arriving at Mickey’s doorstep, I sensed heaviness in the air from the house. Gerald and I walked in and sat down in the living room. Mickey asked me if I could see his late wife’s spirit, to which I told him to take a seat and settle down.
Mickey’s late wife’s spirit appeared behind him- I verified with Mickey about some of his late wife’s features and he confirmed. I told Mickey that his late wife was just behind him, and assured him that she was not here to harm him or take revenge.
She just wanted to ask him if he remembered the time they fell in love and the time he proposed to her. When Mickey heard these, he broke down into tears, his wife’s spirit continued asking if he remembered the birth of their 1st child and what he told her after giving birth.
Mickey was already at a loss for words, and it hit him even harder when I conveyed what his late wife’s spirit mentioned about the incident during the birth of their 1st child.
Mickey was already down on his knees crying and at the same time asking for forgiveness from his late wife’s spirit, saying that he had made the biggest mistake of his life when he cheated on her.
Gerald held onto Mickey and made sure that his emotions did not overwhelm him. He managed to assuage Mickey’s emotions. I told Mickey the purpose of this meeting was not to break him down and throw him into this emotional state; it was to resolve the life lesson that he and his late wife had agreed to participate before birth.
“A lot of time, we did not manage to learn our life lesson in time until it became too late. And in this case your wife is here to resolve and help the both of you to learn the lesson of forgiveness and letting go.”
“She wants you to know that she had already forgiven you, and she wants you to forgive yourself and let go of this life lesson, so that the both of you can move on in life and death.”
After hearing these, I felt the sore and sour feelings within Mickey, I told Mickey that I could facilitate the ending of the life lesson that he and his wife had but he needed to calm down.
Shortly after, Mickey managed to recompose himself, I guided him into a meditative state, where he got to see his late wife one last time and completed their life lesson contract.
“Sometimes, we are not aware that the people closest to us are the ones that we have agreed to learn life lessons with. And most of the time it is too late for us to realize that the lesson that was supposed to be learned is not done.”
Status: Case Closed Dec 2016